We all want to be happy. As Mel Robbins would say, “simple, but not easy.” Are you happy? Overall? Most of the time? What Mel is referring to is the fact that most of how you experience your life is within your control. It’s not complicated to choose happiness, it’s just that it takes effort. That effort begins with the awareness that you cannot directly aim for happiness. Instead, happiness is the natural byproduct of living a life you love to live. The control you have is i